Best Sex Ever

by Karinna Kittles-Karsten
Sacred Love, Inc.

Have you desired to have the best sex ever?

The best sex for us can be guided by the way we like to be approached, spoken to, touched, held and kissed. We look for the best sex in the right time, the right mood, the right stimulation, and the right position. The search for the best sex ever can make us desire a specific ambiance for sex and can most importantly determine who we are drawn to and our choice of lover.

Although the best sex is made up of all of these things, the best sex can be far simpler and far deeper. The best sex ever is in exact correlation to the level of openness and connection that you can share at that moment with your lover. If you have a great physical connection then you will have a great physical sexual experience. If you have a great emotional connection you will have a great emotional, sexual experience.

But what if you have the physical connection but not the emotional?

Or the reverse the emotional connection is there but the physical isn't?

If in one of these areas you are not open and connected to your partner then it becomes challenging if not impossible to have a great sexual experience.

The level of sexual desire, stamina and pleasure that you experience is relative to the openness and connection to each other sexually and emotionally. When one or the other of these connections are not present it causes the partners to mentally and spiritually move away from the sexual experience.

From a Sacred Love perspective, having the best sexual experience originates from an intimate connection shared at the physical, emotional and spiritual levels. The connection or lack of connection in these three areas will determine whether you will be having or not having the best sex ever.

So if you have had a disagreement and unresolved emotions and are not in harmony with your lover sex maybe adequate but doesn't add up to great sex.

If it is physically difficult for you to connect due to trust issues, physical criticism or unresolved sexual trauma then it is challenging to experience sexual desire and pleasure.

And if you and your lover are not aligned soul to soul it is very challenging to get out of the shallow end of sexual pleasure and experience the depths and heights of sexual ecstasy.

If you are open and connected to your lover through the three areas, sexually, emotionally and spiritually then you will naturally experience a soulful sexual experience that is nurturing and expanding. The sexual desire and pleasure you share with your lover will be heightened, your love will deepen and your spirits will soar.

Karinna Kittles-Karsten, The Love Educator is the author of How to Have the Best Sex Ever and 1000 Years of Sexual Wisdom ebooks http://www.sacredlove.com/_catalog_78341/Media_Products.
She is also the founder of SacredLove.com, a fun, empowering online dating and couples membership site to enhance any stage of your love life now. http://www.sacredlove.com.

Article submitted Wednesday, October 12, 2011 & read 28 times.

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